A Reason to Life

"In life, I have met my share of people, some love to walk with me, some beside me and some far from me, and some even though they have not had much time to share, have left some of the best footprints in my life..... I never knew how to express these people in words, because their love and gratitude has changed a piece of life once and forever......"

A few have loved me for who I am, and a few have scorned me more than I could ever imagine, and I know that life still moves on even after someone once told me " You've come into my life to prove that all men are bad, all the time"...... Even if your trying to do your best and good, people will hate you, just smile at them and move on. I can only wish the best and the best alone to those people who have shared a piece of my life..... It's because of them that I am who I am today.

For now, I just want to share to the world, a few words about such people and their reasons....

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul.

Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from... Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart... forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

I wish you all the best and the best alone in all your endeavors as well as struggles in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back into the struggle!

At the end "We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and yet the same".............


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Jay said…
Hi Vasanth...

I came across your blog by accident... and like you said everything happens for a reason; I truly believe that now... I haven't been the best of a person like any ordinary human out of jealousy, hatred, selfishness... but THANK YOU... you made me think this time about the person I am... Cheers man... Bless you...

Jay
Popy said…
I wish I had power of words like you.............. No words Vasanth. . . . . . . . . .
innocent1 said…
I've read this piece of writing so many times! Every time it's new to me, inspiring and healing! God bless You!
impuregod said…
Watya mean in short... keep yo cognitive dissonance strong enough tat yo alter yoself according to situations and as per the wishes of people who walk into yo life. watever happens, keep moving ahead... keep reminding yoself that everything happens for a reason!!!!!
Well... i strongly believe tat it has nothing to do with wat is happenin fo wat... everyone interprets their world... no matter how they interpret... the Truth does not change... people can only ignore and turn blind to be "HAPPY"... in short... the meaninglessness of life is a fact people are scared of/does not comprehend... and go on pretending that they are "HAPPY"... jus ma thoughts... keep posting... peace!!!
Billy Im said…
i typed a life at google search for image and ur image popped up. i instantly clicked your image and coincidentally i read your writings. i knew believe that everything happens for reasons and i was denying that fact due to some unfortunate incident. but thank you for your writings. it helped me alot.
BHARAT RANA said…
Man i agree with you...
only thing i learned from life till now and i am sure that i learned it right that"nothing is universally true then WHY judge"
Live life spontaneously.
Nivin Raj T .R said…
Wonderful.. Great work man..
Rajiv Sarkar said…
Dude, Your reflections have thrown a very new and inspiring light on my life... While I do think on similar lines, never did I come across such a meaningful and simply written set of thoughts that would throw me away... I Thank you for the inspiration. I'm kind of looking for answers to my life and hence in this search for answers came across this blog... I might use the picture on the bench and will attribute it to your blog if this is OK...
Narendra Sharma said…
so true.
whatever happened to you .. i feel for you
Abhi Summers said…
This was an awesom Post I dont know how but when I was reading that post I felt that im not reading I was feeling that. Memories related to this just flooded out from my mind seriously I must say that your all posts are just amazing. You very well know exactly how to express feelings in the WORDS!
Abhi Summers said…
This was an awesom Post I dont know how but when I was reading that post I felt that im not reading I was feeling that. Memories related to this just flooded out from my mind seriously I must say that your all posts are just amazing. You very well know exactly how to express feelings in the WORDS!
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